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No calls. No feed. Three men.

Three dads like you. One thread. No meetings.

We match you with two or three fathers at the same stage: kids the same age, similar work, same time zone. One shared thread. A question every Monday, a two-line summary every Friday, one commitment each week. Nobody has to show up live.

No payment today. Reserve the price, pay when your group forms.

7:02
Monday · your thread

This week's question

Three DadsWhat did you say yes to last week that you should have said no to?
Mark · twins, 4A Saturday client call. Again.
Dan · girl, 9Coaching the team a third season.
YouTyping...
ReplyLater

What you get

Matched with two or three fathers at the same stage. One shared thread. A question every Monday, a two-line summary every Friday. Nobody shows up live.

21:15
Two minutes

Your profile

KidsBoy 7, girl 4
WorkRuns a trades business
Time zoneEastern (US)
How oftenOnce a week is plenty

A two-minute profile: kids, work, time zone.

9:40
Matched

Your group of three

Marktwins 4, agency owner
Dangirl 9, contractor
Youboy 7, girl 4
One thread opens on Telegram

Matched with two or three dads at the same stage.

7:02
Monday · your thread

This week's question

Three DadsWhat did you say yes to last week that you should have said no to?
Mark · twins, 4A Saturday client call. Again.
Dan · girl, 9Coaching the team a third season.
YouTyping...
ReplyLater

Monday: one question in one thread. Reply when you can.

18:00
Friday summary

This week

3replied
2kept it
Mark: no Saturday callskept
Dan: one evening offkept
You: home by 6 twice1 of 2

Friday: the summary and who kept their commitment.

How it works

Step 1

Fill in a two-minute profile: kids' ages, kind of work, time zone, how often you want to hear from the group.

Step 2

We match three or four of you and open one thread on Telegram or WhatsApp.

Step 3

Monday: one question. Friday: the automated summary and who kept their commitment.

If someone goes quiet for a month, a fourth joins. Hard rules on respect and privacy from day one.

Join the waitlist. First month free once your group forms.

You are on the waitlist. We open in two weeks.

Who it is for

Dads with no friends left

Not a failure, a schedule. This is designed for men who have twenty minutes a week, not a Wednesday call.

Owners who will not pay $97 a month

The premium brotherhoods are good and expensive. This is a tenth of the price and asynchronous.

Men who hate feeds

No likes, no scroll, no strangers. Three names, one thread.

Pricing

Three Dads

$9per month, first month free

Matched group, weekly prompts and summaries, moderation. First month free once your group forms.

Reserve $9 a month, first month free

No payment today. Reserve the price, pay when your group forms.

How this compares

Brotherhoods for fathers cost $79 to $247 a month and ask for weekly live calls, 3 to 4 hours a month. Local dad groups depend on your city. This is a tenth of the price, matched for you, and asynchronous.

Why we are building this

No friends out here, not even work friends.

a dad on r/daddit, December 2025, 1,394 upvotes

My wife started using the mom app recently and my first thought was 'where do I meet other dads?'

a dad on r/dad, March 2023

Questions

What if my group dies?

After 30 days of silence from one member we add a fourth. After 60 days we re-match you at no cost.

What happens with my email?

We use it to tell you when your group forms. Nothing else. One click to unsubscribe.

We open in two weeks.

No payment today. Reserve the price, pay when your group forms.